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Wednesday, January 26, 2011

SEXUAL POSITIONS



Sex is an integral part of any marriage because it ensures the healthy expression of love between two people who plan on being together for the rest of their lives. So knowing different sex positions would spice up your sex life...

I would highlight here some sexual positions.

ASTRIDE POSITION


With the man lying on his back on the bed, the woman can sit astride him and control the pace of their lovemaking. Facing him, she may squat on her haunches for a more powerful bouncing movement, or, as here, kneel, supporting herself with her hands. This way, she is free to lean
forward and kiss his mouth. From this position it is easy for her to increase the intimacy by lying with her whole body along his. A variation is forger to face away from him, increasing the depth of penetration

CRAWL POSITION



Deep penetration can be achieved with the woman on all fours and her partner kneeling behind her. This position gives both lovers the opportunity to thrust against one another, and the man may also caress his partner’s breasts, buttocks and clitoris. Rear entry positions like this one are ideal when both partners are in the mood for vigorous rather than tender lovemaking. A variation is for both partners to stand with the woman bending forward and supporting herself against furniture.


CROSS




Here the woman lies on her back on the bed and the man lies diagonally across her. She opens her legs to allow him to enter and he rocks gently from side to side. She can guide his movements with the pressure of her hands. This position is somewhat easier to maintain if the man lies beneath on his back and the woman is in control.


CUISSADE




This position is known as ‘cuissade’, from the French cuisse, meaning thigh. The woman lies on her back, with the man at her side. She raises the leg nearest to him and rests it on his body, and he enters from under her thigh, with his nearest leg crossing her body. They can hold one another and kiss, and the position is a very intimate one, possibly because of the ‘secretive ‘form of entry. The woman can exert a certain amount of restraint with her thigh, which can make it more exciting.

CUNNILINGUS



In cunnilingus, the man stimulates his partner's vulva and clitoris with his lips and tongue. For
most women, cunnilingus gives the most delicious sensual pleasure and is the best way of climaxing. It is also extremely arousing for her partner.

Cunnilingus – Oral Sex upon a vulva

What is cunnilingus?

Cunnilingus is the fine art of making love to a vagina with you mouth and tongue. Its is a delicate skill,requiring patience, practice, and dedication to get it right,but any woman you learn to do it right for will appreciate you all the more for it.

What applies to the penis applies to the vulva-every one is different, requiring a different touch to make its owner happy. But few tools can equal the tongue for the amount of pleasure it can deliver to a happy vagina.

This article assumes that you know what a vulva looks like and can identify with some precision the mons veneris, labia majora, clitoral hood,clitoris,labia minora,urethra,vagina,and perineum,to name them (approximately) from top to bottom.

How fast should I go?


This isn't an attack. Don't go after the clitoris like a fireman attacking a fire. Quite often at first, the clitoris is far too sensitive for direct stimulation. Lick around it, stimulating the hood, teasing her inner labia, tasting her. Take your time and listen to her. Some women make noise,and some do not. It will be a while before you learn exactly what your lover prefers as far as oral sex is concerned. Some women may like additional stimulation-- a finger or two into the vagina, or perhaps even the anus. She may want your hands to reach up and play with her breasts, or she may want your fingers to hold her labia apart so that your tongue can get at her vulva more
directly.

I've heard cunnilingus doesn't taste good.

If the taste or smell bothers you or is a concern, ask her to wash first. Most people who enjoy cunnilingus agree that a clean vagina is a good, if acquired, taste. As a woman nears her climax, she may want more direct stimulation. In general, fast, rhythmic stimulation is most effective at causing climax-- but there shouldn't be a rush to get there. Take your time and learn to appreciate what you can do for her.

What about
cunnilingus during menstruation?

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Some people are particularly turned off at the suggestion of cunnilingus during menstruation. If it is a concern to you, then wait. A tampon may well hold the blood back, as will a diaphragm, but some men can't stand the taste anyway. If your partner is healthy, however, there is no particular danger in menstrual blood, and some women find that orgasms during their periods alleviate cramps


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